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  • duran 1:40 pm on August 1, 2008 Permalink | Reply
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    Its over. 

    This morning, approx 10am, my mother was granted “Relief” from deportation proceedings. She was deemed as someone who has contributed to the good of the state, and the country, and that removal from the United States is not what should happen to her. The terms are funny, and that we have to SEEK releif from deportation, instead of some other term makes my head spin a little.

    At this time she is still waiting to get her passport back (takes a week+ to dig it out of the vault apparently…), and at that point she is as free and and able to do anything she wants to at any time, as though the threat of deportation was not hanging over her head any more ;) .

    The hour of court time was stressful, scary, but in the end a great relief.
    I’ve never imagined that I would need to hear the words from our government that my mother, of all people, would be “… Allowed to stay in the United States.”

    My emotions through this process have been, across the spectrum, to say the least. Ranging from sadness, dispair, rage, frustration, confusion, anger… you name it.

    Today, despite my rather rabid attitudes about the way our country is being run today, I found solace in the judicial system that we have. While the rules that exist that caught my mother, I feel are very strict, and the people enforcing them are just a few steps away from high school bullies… That when it comes down to it, we have a system, that while imperfect, allows for the presentation of the case to defend your self. We are on the far end spectrum of luck and circumstance with the gracious patronage we’ve received in this chain of events, but that even with out that luck and gift, that we had a chance to present our case in front of a judge, who would hear our argument and make a fair judgment on the issue, is a blessing that no American can afford to forget.

    On one hand this reassures my faith in the system we live in.
    On the other it makes me even more upset people don’t realize how lucky we are to live in a country with the laws and system it has.

    Today though, politics aside. is a great day. And I’m so happy. So very very happy.

     
  • duran 12:10 am on August 1, 2008 Permalink | Reply
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    The Mom Story. 

    Thursday afternoon my phone rings. “Hi mom” I say…

    I’ll skip over a paraphrased dialog, and get right to the point.

    Thursday morning, the Judge in our case called our lawyer, and told him that the original scheduled date for Aug 21 couldn’t happen… And that unless we wanted to wait until February, the only day that works was Friday.

    Yes, this friday. Aug 1st, 2008.

    So, tomorrow at 830 we sit down in court, and hopefully, with all things crossed and everything else being fair, we should have a relatively short morning in court, and my mom should be free as a bird at that point.

    My self, my brother, and a few other people have taken the extremely short notice and are going to show up tomorrow for any testimony that needs to happen. We have a whole stack of letters for the case written by a number of people who have been in our lives for all the years I can remember. Every one who has some sort of knowledge, who hears the case even if informaly agrees that none of this should be happening, and that as soon as the judge sees the full accounting of the facts, that they should, with all sanity, dismiss the charges.

    I mean, whats the other option?
    I will, of course, update this as soon as I hear more.

    Thanks.

     
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